• On Writing

    10 Tips To Start Writing Now

    10 Tips to Start Writing Now I was originally going to post these with the Start Writing Now Synchroblog last Monday, but decided to switch them with 15 tips on how to start your own writing business. 1. Follow Through You may not feel you’re the smartest or most savvy writer/blogger/author, but that actually doesn’t matter. The ones who write and keep writing are the ones who succeed. My former boss actually told me that I wasn’t the most qualified for the position, but because of my follow through (sending emails, leaving voice mails) and not giving up–he gave me the job. That was the job that turned everything around…

  • Devotionals,  On Writing

    How to Write Devotionals

    [Monthly Columnist – Wendy van Eyck] – Starting this January, I am introducing a few new regular contributors who will be guest blogging on a monthly basis. I asked Wendy because we share a common love of devotionals. She runs the site ilovedevotionals.com and lives in South Africa. She has written on my site about facing her husband’s cancer within the first year of marriage. I admire her courage and welcome her to DevotionalDiva.com with open arms. How To Write Devotionals I have always loved writing about God sticking his fingers into our everyday lives. I have loved the way you can look at something in your life – good…

  • Faith,  On Writing

    78 Reasons To Write Your Story

    78 Reasons To Write Your Story I have been blessed to host 78 guest bloggers since April, 2010, and I hope to keep adding to the list. Why? Because I believe it’s important to share your story. In fact, I believe God calls us to write. Twice in Scripture it says, Publish his glorious deeds among the nations. Tell everyone about the amazing things he does (1 Chronicles 16:24 & Psalm 96:3). I hope each and every quote will push you over the edge to where you finally have NO MORE EXCUSES but to write. Whether you write in the privacy of your own journal, an online blog, social media,…

  • Relationships

    On Dating: Hope for the Holidays

    [Guest Post by Jenny LaBahn] – Is it really possible to have hope for the holidays? Because the holidays for a single person can be like pouring salt on an already opened wound. The loneliness is already prominent. The feeling of being a “misfit” at various functions already exists. The unfulfilled longing is already present. For many, this season only serves to further exacerbate the struggle that resides within. It seems to be a constant reminder that we are, in fact, still single, still alone, still waiting. (As if any of us really need a reminder). Most married people don’t seem to grasp this concept. It would seem that it…

  • Faith,  Relationships

    On Dating: Everybody's doing it

    [Guest Post by Alexandrea J. Wilson] – Because I grew up in a Christian home–I knew better than to believe the lie that everybody’s doing it. I went to the True Love Waits conferences and even pledged to be faithful to God until it was my time to share that special wedding night with my husband. Even when my friends started to lose their virginity, I stood firm because I knew I made a promise to God to save sex for marriage. My confidence in my ability to execute self-control made me think that I would be able to endure any temptation–on my own. I wouldn’t need to fall at…

  • Relationships

    The Gray Areas of Dating

    What are the gray areas of dating? It’s been fun talking about dating and relationships. So far a host of guest posters including myself and my husband have addressed topics including: +10 Tips Surviving Singleness – Renee Fisher (11/26) +On Dating: You Don’t Need A Boyfriend To Make You Happy – Julie Caulder (11/29) +On Dating: You Complete Me – Casey Tygrett (12/2) +To Date Or Not To Date – Rebekah Snyder (12/4) +On Dating: Should Men Pursue Women First – Marc Fisher (12/6) +Dating Made Me Throw Up In My Mouth A Little – Renee Fisher (12/10) +The Secret To Dating – Hannah Stovall (12/11) +5 Tips How To…

  • Relationships

    Don't Be Afraid To Date

    [Guest Post by Krista Back] – What makes one afraid to date? New relationships are wonderful; they are full of smiles, giggles, flirting, stomach flutters, and interesting conversations. However, even in the midst of embracing the excitement and newness of a dating relationship, in the back of my mind I also find myself apprehensive and worried. “What if this will one will turn out like every other relationships?” “What if he hurts me like the others?” “There is no way this will work.” I always end up dealing with this internal struggle between all the good and fun emotions of a new relationship, and the fear I might have my…

  • Relationships

    On Dating: I Said No

    I didn’t want to tell my story–the one where I said no and he didn’t stop. On a cold, dark day in February, 2006–it happened. A new coworker asked me to drinks after work. He seemed harmless enough, and I honestly didn’t think twice about saying yes. We drove to a nearby brewery and each ordered one drink. One drink too many. One drink for a supposedly “friendly” coworker to turn aggressive. I don’t know why I agreed to take one car. My car. After drinks he asked me to go to the beach. I reluctantly said yes because it was cold, and because I thought he said dinner would…

  • Relationships

    On Dating: Flirting With Disaster

    [Guest Post by Rayni Peavy] – This is my story of flirting with disaster. What’s the Big Deal About Flirting anyway? Before I got married I never dated a lot. But I did flirt like it was going out of style. When you’re single, a little flirting here and there probably isn’t that big a deal but I was a major flirt and I majorly led guys on. I called it “flirt without follow through”. From my teens into my very early 20s I loved getting a guy’s attention by using all the right lines, looks and gestures. Then when they asked for my number I would give it to…

  • Relationships

    5 Tips How To Get A Second Date

    [Guest Post by Tracy Le] – Believe it or not–it really is possible to snag a second date. A lot of my friends who are single find dating to be dreadful. And by “dreadful” I mean really dreadful. For some reason, I seem to be the lone wolf who welcomes such a potentially awkward social set up. Then again I strangely love job interviews so I suppose it comes to no surprise; there is a commonality between the two with it’s exchanging of questions and answers about oneself that I just really enjoy. I’m no expert at dating but my liking towards it bodes well for my reputation and oftentimes…